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The Weight Teachers Carry

This past week, Kasey and I had the unique privilege of interviewing two powerful guests on the Schurtz & Ties podcast.

One is a teacher in Minnesota wrestling with the real-time fallout of political decisions — where bus stops are met with armed presence and families are unsure whether school is still safe ground. The other was Toby Price — a teacher who found himself at the center of a national legal battle after reading a lighthearted children’s book on Zoom when a guest speaker didn’t show up. No students complained. No parents called. But a superintendent’s fear that someone might complain was enough to end a career.

Two very different stories with one common thread: weight.

Talking with both of them forced me to sit with a question I don’t think we ask often enough . . . Do we truly understand the weight teachers are carrying right now?

The Minnesota teacher described standing at bus stops, knowing anxiety is already present before the first bell rings. Families worried. Students unsure. Political decisions rippling into hallways and classrooms.

And yet — he still has to teach.

Still has to greet kids at the door.
Still has to calm nerves.
Still has to explain and defend that humans are kind, that school is safe, and that learning still matters.

How do you teach when a school - a community - is riddled with fear?

Then there’s Toby’s story.

Whether you agree with the book choice or not isn’t really the point.

The point is this: every teacher knows this feeling, that one small decision, one misinterpreted moment, one clip taken out of context could be the catalyst for something disastrous.

So teachers teach with caution — and courage.

They adjust in real time for the student who didn’t sleep, for the one who is anxious, for the one who is behind. For the one who is ahead and bored. They navigate content, emotion, policy, politics, community expectations, and child development — all before lunch!

And most of it will never be seen.

We talk about teacher burnout, we debate curriculum, and we argue about standards. But we rarely pause to acknowledge the daily courage it takes to lead a classroom right now. In the turmoil. In the unknown. While underpaid.

Teachers are asked to be counselors, protectors, mediators, curriculum designers, behavior specialists, data analysts, and steady adults — often simultaneously.

And yet, every morning, they open the door to their classrooms, greet kids with hugs, smiles, and warmth. They plan, adjust, modify, and support. They endure criticism and shoulder risk. They make hard decisions, stand between students and fear, and cultivate moments of lasting impact. They make a difference. They are the difference.

So before we criticize, before we legislate and ask teachers — yet again — to serve as the battleground for our political decisions or community factions.
Before we reduce education to a headline or a soundbite —

It might be worth pausing to ask: Do we truly understand the weight we are asking teachers to carry?

If we don’t, then let’s spend more time listening. Asking. And attempting to understand.

If we do, then let’s spend more time — and more resources — supporting.

Because teachers shouldn’t be asked to host the politcal battleground. They should be allowed to be what they’ve always been, the steady ground.

Teachers are the courage our children borrow. They are the adults who stand in the gap, and they are the backbone of our communities.

Or at least, they should be.

Do we understand the weight we are asking our teachers to carry?

Friday Thought : The Strength of Transparency: What Clydesdales can teach us about fear and support

Yesterday, my oldest daughter Eden (she's eleven) was fortunate enough to help a friend of ours with his Clydesdales. Not only was she thrilled because she LOVES horses, but she was also shocked to learn how delicate these monsters are. "They're so scared," she said.

After prepping the giants for the coming carriage ride, the owner of the horses offered her the opportunity to drive them. Shortly into their journey he handed her the reigns, and a bit of advice. "Whenever you come across a bridge or approach a tractor, the horses get scared,” he said, “They need you to talk to them, to let them know you are here and that they are not alone." My little girl was dumbfounded. "Like this," he said. They were approaching a large fence and the horses were beginning to slow their walk. "I see that fence," he said in a soothing voice, "I know it's scary, I'm scared too, but well do this together, okay?" To Eden's amazement, the horses picked up their pace and continued on their way.

As she shared this story with me, I couldn't help but think of how often we are terrified to express our fears. We want to be perceived like a Clydesdales: strong, confident, and extremely competent. The vision of those old Budweiser commercials, of Clydesdales running through snow or pulling giant loads is awe inspiring and we want to be more like that. Not scared. Being frightened or needing the coaxing from a petite little eleven year-old doesn't quite fit our ideas of what it means to Do Great Things!

But maybe it should.

There is something encouraging - convicting even - about how a Clydesdale lives its life. It knows what it can do and has all the confidence in the world that it can accomplish whatever task is set before it. At some point, however, it also needs to know its fears, warranted or not, are acknowledged as real. Most importantly though, they need to know they are not alone.

Humans are much the same.

Not only do we need to be strong enough to admit we need help, that we're afraid, and that we can't do it alone, we need to be strong enough to know that admitting so isn't weak! It's brave. And it is completely okay.

We also need to be the kind of people that allow others to admit they need help or are afraid. And we do so by being strong enough to not fix their fears or concerns for them. When the moment of fear approached for the horses, their owner didn't hop off and take control of the cart and do their job for them. Nor did he show them that their fears we're unfounded, making them feel weak or foolish. He simply acknowledged their fears and reminded them that he was there. Then, they continued on. Together.

Take a lesson from the Clydesdales and share your concerns, your fears - invite them into your world - so you can continue carrying your heavy load and doing Great things, fully confident that you are not alone.

And neither are they.