favorite quotes

The Great Alone, by Kristin Hannah

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“Mostly he was afraid for Leni, because no matter how this all worked out, no matter if she did everything perfectly and got away and saved her mom, Leni’s heart would always have a broken place. It didn’t matter how you lost a parent or how great or shitty that parent was, a kid grieved forever. Matthew grieved for the mother he’d had. He figured Leni would grieve for the dad she wanted” (pg 359).

One of my favorites. Beautifully written, often poignant, and truthfully told. I loved this story.

Grade: A+

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We Should All Be Feminists, by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

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“By far the worst thing we do to males - by making them feel they have to be hard - is that we leave them with very fragile egos. The harder a man feels compelled to be, the weaker his ego is” (pg 27).

“The problem with gender is that it prescribes how we should be rather than recognizing how we are” (pg 34).

“Culture does not make people. People make culture” (pg 46).

Grade: A

Simple, short, yet powerful read. I love most everything Miss Adichie writes or says, and this was no different.

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My Name is Asher Lev, by Chaim Potok

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“He left a taste of thunder in my mouth” (pg 4).

“I’m not made for this. I need people. I hate sitting with telephones” (pg 24).

“To survive, you learn to learn quickly” (pg 38).

“A Jew should not only talk, he should also do” (pg 81).

“Live and be well” (pg 83).

“To touch a person’s heart, you must see a person’s face” (pg 117).

“We must fight against it. Otherwise it will destroy the world” (pg 177).

“Every great artist is a man who has freed himself from his family, his nation, his race. Every man who has shown the world the way to beauty, to true culture, has been a rebel, a ‘universal’ without patriotism, without home, who has found his people everywhere” (pg 203).

“Only those who have mastered a tradition has a right to attempt to add to it or to rebel against it” (pg 213).

“You have a gift, Asher Lev. You have a responsibility” (pg 217).

“You will enter in truth or you will enter not at all” (pg 287).

“You have cross a boundary. I cannot help you. You are alone now. I give you my blessings” (pg 367).

Grade: A+

One of my all-time favorites. I rarely read a book more than once, but this one is an exception.

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Amusing Ourselves to Death : Public Discourse in the age of Show Business, by Neil Postman

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“People will come to love their oppression, to adore the technologies that undo their capacities to think. What Orwell feared were those who would ban books. What Huxley feared was that there would be no reason to ban a book, for there would be no one who wanted to read one . . . Orwell feared that what we hate will ruin us. Huxley feared that what we love will ruin us” (pg xix).

A “conversation” is “all techniques that permit people of a particular culture to exchange messages” (pg 6).

A message denotes a specific, concrete statement about the world. But the forms of our media, including the symbols through which they permit conversation, do not make such statements. They are rather like metaphors, working by unobtrusive but powerful implication to enforce their special definitions of reality” (pg 10).

“What is peculiar about such interpositions of media is that their role in directing what we will see or know is so rarely noticed” (pg 11).

“The clock made us into time-keepers, and then time-savers, and now time-servers. In the process we have learned irreverence toward the sun and the seasons, for in a world made up of seconds and minutes, the authority of nature is superseded” (pg 11).

“Intelligence is primarily defined as one’s capacity to grasp the truth of things” (pg 25).

“Anyone who is even slightly familiar with the history of communications knows that every new technology for thinking involves a trade off. It giveth and taketh away, although not quite in equal measure” (pg 29).

“A technology is merely a machine. A medium is the social and intellectual environment a machine creates . . . Each technology has an agenda of its own” (pg 84).

“Americans no longer talk to each other, they entertain each other. They do not exchange ideas; they exchange images. They do not argue with propositions; they argue with good looks, celebrities and commercials” (pg 93).

“Americans are the best entertained and quite likely the least well-informed people in the Western world” (pg 106).

Grade: B

Slightly outdated, but still relevant and full of ideas and consequences worth considering.

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Tribes: On Homecoming and Belonging, by Sebastian Junger

I didn’t highlight this one a lot because it wasn’t mine. But here are a few quotes I couldn’t pass up:

“Men in the peaceful areas were depressed because they couldn’t help their society by participating in the struggle” (pg 49).

“Air raids failed to trigger the kind of mass hysteria that government officials had predicted” (pg 51).

“What catastrophes seem to do - sometimes in teh span of a few minutes - is turn back the clock on ten thousand years of social evolution. Self-interest gets subsumed into group interest because there is no survival outside group survival, and that creates a social bond that many people sorely miss” (pg 66).

Grade: B+

There wasn’t much new or groundbreaking, but there were a few great reminders of how important tribes are to mankind and how danger and pain and suffering can actually be agents to draw us together, rather than pull us apart.

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Personal and Authentic, by Thomas C. Murray

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“As those first few weeks went on, I watched Mark lead. When he’d walk into the faculty room, people would smile. He made people laugh. Never once did I hear Mark complain. He brought his best every single day - and it showed. Mark practiced what he preached to his students. his students loved him for it and so did the team around him” (pg 3).

“If you want to get through to {someone}, maybe it’s you who needs to change” (pg 4).

“I had been so focused on myself that I couldn’t see him. I had been so focused on my needs, so insistent that he conform to my rules and my ways of doing things, that I had completely missed looking at his heart and what it was that he really needed” (pg 5).

“When I changed my mindset from what I taught to who I taught, the real work came into focus” (pg. 6).

“Teachers are some of the only people on the planet who go to bed worrying about other people’s children” (pg. 6).

“In our schools and classrooms, we need to ensure that students are not experience rich and relationship poor” (pg 11).

“Education begins and ends with people, and we must own our roles in this process . . . we must love our kids more than we love our past. We must love our kids more than we love our habits. We must love our kids more than we love our own egos. We must love our kids enough to change ourselves when needed” (pg 16).

“We may not get the chance to choose which kids or families to serve, but we do get to decide what kind of climate we want to serve them in” - Jimmy Casas, (pg. 19).

The four pillars to create a dynamic learning culture:

  1. Leadership

  2. Interactions

  3. Trust

  4. Risk-taking

“What you do has far greater impact than what you say” - Stephen Covey (pg 20).

“Never underestimate your own unique talents and abilities; they have the power to shape the future of our schools and create a better learning culture that our students need and deserve” (pg 21).

“Toxic school cultures are real. Toxic, egocentric, self-serving “leadership” is real. Innovation will not thrive in these school and classroom cultures, and risk-taking will be minimal. In these spaces, it is ultimately the students who have the most to lose” (pg 22).

“The best leaders don’t point the finger outward before they point the finger at themselves and examine inward” (pg 22).

“If you work in a toxic environment, you have two choices: maximize blame and minimize impact or maximize impact and minimize blame” (pg 23).

“Right now, your school’s culture perfectly aligns with the mindset and actions of the adults in your building” (pg 23).

“In our schools and in our classrooms, every interaction matters . . . A single interaction can change a person’s life forever” (pg 30).

“We must own our actions. We must own our mindsets. We must own the opportunities that we take and those we pass on. We must own our roles in creating the cultures our kids need to thrive” (pg 30).

“to build a team, you must first build relationships” (pg 36).

How to build trust:

  1. Be honest.

  2. Be authentic

  3. Be kind

  4. Be Empathetic

  5. Be Reliable

  6. Be Consistent

  7. Be Competent

For Tuesday morning meeting: “What’s your story? What are the life experiences that are core to who you are? What are the things in life that have molded your lens and impacted the way you see the world? How does your unique story impact your work as an educator? “ (pg 43).

“As we walk through the halls of our schools, do we seek to understand? When others walk by, do we see faces or do we see hearts? Do we see data points and test scores or do we see the stories and hearts of children? Do we see colleagues first or the people those colleagues are?” (pg 52).

“Being an educator and showing love for others while your own heart is hurting is an unbelievable courageous act” (pg 52).

“If our habits have more resilience than our purpose, our desired impact will be shackled” (pg 61).

“Informally interview the most senior people on your staff. Ask them to reflect on the changes they’ve seen over time as well as the things that hold true decades later and are as important as the day they started” (pg 65).

“Whether it comes from the school board lever where many decisions are made regarding the future of the district, at the building level where the year has been planned, or at the classroom level related to teaching and learning, one of the most extensive needs evident in today’s schools is a clear vision of the path forward. A lack of vision is often to blame for the feeling of one spinning their wheels or the cause of a large state of confusion” (pg 65).

“Everybody ends up somewhere in life. A few people end up somewhere on purpose” (pg 67).

“Fold a large sheet of paper into thirds horizontally. On the left section, identify five to ten skills or characteristics you want your students to have one year from today. In the center section, identify three to four ways in which you currently help cultivate each on of those skills. On the right-hand section, identify two to three ways you can further build each skill in your curricular area” (pg 70).

“To be learner-centered, it means that we, as educators, have to evolve as the world does . . . to be learner-centered, we have to understand how learners actually learn best. The more we understand how people learn, the more we can understand how to create more personal and authentic experiences” (71).

The Learning Sciences: 10 Key Principles

  1. Learning is a process that involves effort, mistakes, reflection, and a refinement of strategies.

  2. Thinking deeply about the to-be-learned material help students pay attention, build memories, and make meaning out of what they are learning

  3. Communicating high expectations and keeping learners at the edge of their mystery helps students reach their potential.

  4. Retrieval practice strengthens memory and helps students flexibly apply what they learn.

  5. Spacing out learning and interweaving different content strengthens learning.

  6. Students are more motivated to learn when they are interested, have a sense of autonomy, and understand the purpose behind what they are learning.

  7. Students learn well when they feel safe and connected.

  8. Collaboration and social interaction can be powerful learning experiences because they encourage deeper processing and engage the “social brain.”

  9. Student’s physical well-being, including nutrition, sleep, and exercise, impacts learning.

  10. The entire environment, from space to temperature to lighting, can affect learning (pg 73)

“Which principles resonate with you the most? Why? What’s one principle you could focus on more in your work?”

“Personal and authentic learning won’t happen if our classrooms are information rich yet experience poor” (pg 96).

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“What moments of awe occur in your classroom or school? How do the learners respond? Which ones do they remember years later?” (pg 97).

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“You’re always going to have critics and naysayers and people that are going to tell you that you won’t, that you can’t, that you shouldn’t. Most of those people are the people that didn’t, that wouldn’t, that couldn’t” - Tim Tebow (pg 156).

“It often seems that the more we step outside of the status quo, the more adversity stares us in the face. We may not get to choose the difficulties we face, but we must face difficulties to move forward in the work. What we do get to choose, however, is our internal reactions, our external responses, and what we’ll learn from the experience” (pg 158).

“Failure is an opportunity for a fresh start, only with more profound knowledge and understanding than you had the last time” (pg 162).

“It is your display of humility in the best of times and your fail-forward mindset and perseverance during the difficult times that will make those around you want to follow” and “the educators who make the largest impact talk about and focus on opportunities. Less effective educators talk about and focus on obstacles” (pg 166).

“Every time we fail is an opportunity to model how to get up and keep trying to those who look to us for direction” (pg 166).

“The illiterate of the twenty-first century will not be those who cannot read and write but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn” (pg 168).

“Your legacy will not be determined by the content you taught but by how well you served others” (pg 177).

“The legacy that you build and will leave behind someday is something you must own. So teach and lead with no regrets. Your impact can never, and will never, be erased. Your work matters, and it matters every single day” (pg 178).

Grade: A+

A must read for all teachers. Like most books of this nature, the middle can drag every now now and then, but the book end chapters are killer! Great, great stuff.

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