This TedTalk is one of the key foundational pieces of this whole website. It should be posted again on every other Tuesday. And Thursday. Good God, Chimamanda Adichie is good.
You can read the transcript here.
And if you find yourself lucky enough to watch (or rewatch) this video, please write in your favorite quotes in the comment section below. I'd love to see what stands out to whomever stumbles across this page.